Roy’s Sunday Letter for May 31, 2026
Meeting Beth & Turning Calendar to 82
Remembering the last Sunday in May, 1977. My life was blessed by meeting Beth at St. Francis Presbyterian, a Ft. Worth house church. Our life together began that Sunday and has continued for 49 years, through 4 cities, 5 dogs, and 5 homes. From our commitment to learn about each other, we learned about ourselves. We continue to do so by paying attention, being present and creating healthy social circles. We believe we are striving seniors who want to strengthen our gifts and abilities for the tomorrows to come.
Our life today continues to be influenced by our Faith and has been important to our participation in a weekly Meditation group. Learning to meditate has enriched us both with appreciation for Buddhist teachings. We talk through the small and the large parts of daily life. We trust each other, leaning into each other’s strengths and wisdom. We are settled, for now, in our Ft. Worth home and neighborhood. We will be ready for our next steps as they may come.
- The calendar pages are showing me a new number at 82. At this life stage, I have completed my service with nonprofit community organizations. My investment today continues as a writer, teller of stories, being an encourager and being present with others. I hope to always continue to support those who struggle with life decisions and the suffering of declining health. I always want to encourage good feelings, and a sense of hope. A major shift in my life today is sharing challenges, decisions, and next steps with Beth, always the better of the two.
- Daily living is slower, the calendar less crowded. I am learning about being still, strengthening my legs, balance, and breath. Connections with our social circle, whether near or far, is a protection against the elder tendency to isolate. Each evening, we share one part of our day for which we are grateful. I am, we are grateful, with heart felt appreciation for health, financial stability, and the friends who care about, as we care about their lives and family.
Roy, missing Jazz, who gave us all the love and life she had to give.
Congratulations on 49 years together! You have had good times, bad times, challenging times ,but each time of your lives together, strengthened your resolve to work it out together. You and Beth have a unique relationship, you work as equal partners and cherish each other and the many friends that have moved in and out of your lives, together. 82 is just a number, your mind is sharp and your compassion for others is strong. Happy Birthday, dear friend, here’s to many more
Good morning Roy, thanks for the letter.. Happy birthday and very happy anniversary.. living a well lived life.. although at a slower speed, still at full speed ahead.
There is talk of us having role models growing up, that help shape who we are. not too much said about inheriting a role model much later in life. My life was greatly enriched, just a few years ago, when Betty introduced us over lunch at the hamburger joint on Arkansas Lane in Arlington. I owe Betty many things and y’all are at top of the list. Thank you for leading by example. Big hugs Roy and Beth.
Good morning and happy birthday Roy!! Thank you for sharing your beautiful life and sharp mind with us every week. I love that through all the years you have continually found ways to serve and encourage others. You are a true blessing on this earth! Big hugs to you and Beth!
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Congratulations on 49 years with Beth. Carole and I will celebrate our 50th anniversary this October. It has been a wonderful journey. Keep up your writings. We enjoy them very much. God Bless you.
A supportive note well received.
I will keep at it…. 4 yrs now.
We share your 50 yrs with gladness.
I will wave as you are helping Jennifer.
Happy birthday-versary! You are a bright light in our lives. My heart aches for the loss of your dog. They are so precious.
THis morning I again at the Jazz book Beth made.
A shift
Not as much missing as appreciation and goodness……
Roy, the happiest of birthdays to you. You, Beth, and Jazz have greatly enhanced my life. I have learned and have grown through our many years by being connected with you three and our shared experiences in this life. May we continue to be enhanced and healed by our special “Frankincense” moments.
And more for each of is to contribute and from each other.
We will do so in health and even joy…….together again soon…..
What a beautiful and heart awakening turn to 82. Happy Birthday dear Roy. You bring a bounty of goodness and kindness to each of us, each Sunday. How I respect and appreciate all the changes you have navigated with aplomb and hope that I will do the some with your good guidance as I move forward into the future. Here’s to holding the Hope, Love, and Fearlessness that it takes to turn another page. X/O Linda M
Yes to holding Hope close…..& showing the Light ti each other,,,,,you are a part of our path